Peb yuav cov khoom lag luam hla dhau "cuab" ntawm cov khw

2024 Tus sau: James Gerald | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 14:08

"Ntau npaum li cas, ntau npaum li cas?!" - dumbfoundedly nug koj ntawm daim tshev nyiaj, sim nkag siab dab tsi mus tsis raug hauv cov txheej txheem ntawm cov khoom. Tom qab tag nrho, txhua yam raug coj mus rau hauv tus account: cov npe tau kos, cov nqi cim npe tau raug tshuaj xyuas, "tsib rau tus nqi ntawm plaub" cov khoom tau tsis quav ntsej … txoj kev npaj nrog tus nqi siab dua qhov xav tau. Dab tsi yog qhov teeb meem? Lub ntsiab lus yog nyob rau hauv kev tshaj lij ntawm cov khw muag khoom lag luam uas tswj hwm koj, ua rau kev siv nyiaj tsis tau npaj tseg. Wb soj ntsuam cov khoom siv dag ntxias?

Golden txhais

Cia peb pib nrog qhov paub zoo - lub khw yuav tsum muag dab tsi ua ntej yuav muab tso rau ntawm koj lub qhov muag. Ntxiv mus, tsis sib xws rau kev ntseeg neeg nyiam, cov no yuav tsis tas yog cov khoom lag luam nrog tus nqi siab tshaj plaws. Qhov laj thawj yog vim li cas cov khoom lag luam ntawm ib lub npe tshwj xeeb xaus rau ntawm lub txee nruab nrab tuaj yeem sib txawv: txhawb nqa lub npe tshiab, xav tau muag cov khoom lag luam tas sij hawm, koom nrog kev txhawb nqa, thiab zoo li. Tab sis qhov tseeb tseem nyob - qhov siab ntawm kev tso pob khoom ua lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb: raws li kev txheeb cais, yooj yim txav cov khoom lag luam los ntawm qib hauv siab mus rau qhov muag qib nce qhov muag ntawm nws li 63%. Yog li yog tias koj xav txiav txim siab xaiv - tsis txhob tub nkeeg khoov thiab sawv ntawm taw, nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev.

Los ntawm txoj kev, ntawm kev ceeb toom rau niam txiv, cov txee qis qis tsis yog ib qho panacea. Yog tias koj tab tom mus rau lub khw muag khoom nrog menyuam yaus, npaj rau qhov tsis tau npaj tseg ntawm menyuam yaus cov khoom lag luam: cov khoom lag luam uas txaus siab rau menyuam yaus yuav nyob hauv qab no, ntawm qhov siab ntawm lawv txoj kev loj hlob. Muaj ntau "xav tau" thiab "yuav" yuav nce tus nqi ntawm kev txheeb xyuas ntau zaus … uas suav nrog.

Cov nyhuv Caries

Tab sis tsis txhob maj mus rau txim rau tus menyuam yaus ua rau kev dag ntxias. Koj cov zaub mov xaiv ntse feem ntau tsis zoo ib yam. Muaj ntau txoj hauv kev nthuav qhia cov khoom lag luam uas ua rau koj mob siab rau qee yam tshwj xeeb. Muaj pes tsawg zaus, piv txwv li, koj puas tau nqa ib yam dab tsi los ntawm lub txee tsuas yog vim nws tsis txaus? Nco ntsoov los tsis yog, koj tau ua qhov kev tshuaj xyuas: "lwm lub npe ua phem dua, uas txhais tau tias cov khoom seem hauv qhov tsawg kawg nkaus yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws." Qhov tseeb, qhov tsis txaus tau tsim los dag. Cov txheej txheem no hu ua "caries effect": cov khoom lag luam tshwj xeeb "thinned" yog li koj tau txais qhov kev xav tias qee yam khoom nrov dua lwm tus.

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Thiab qhov no tsis yog tib txoj hauv kev kom ua rau koj mloog. Cov khoom siv hluav taws xob ntawm kev cuam tshuam tau ntxiv thiab hloov kho tshiab txhua xyoo. Tus cwj pwm ntawm cov neeg yuav khoom, kev cuam tshuam rau kev txhawb nqa, kev xav ntawm tus kheej ntawm qee hom neeg Qhov tseeb, koj txhua qhov kev mus rau tom khw yog koom nrog ib tus neeg qhov kev sim tom ntej. Piv txwv tias koj tsis teb cov khoom siv POS thiab tsis nqa khoom los ntawm cov txee nruab nrab ntxiv lawm … zoo, yog lawm, cov neeg muag khoom yuav pom txoj hauv kev tshiab los tsoo rau hauv koj lub siab tsis nco qab. Piv txwv li, ib nrab-ntim cov thawv nrog cov khoom lag luam tshwj xeeb yuav raug "pov" hauv nruab nrab ntawm txoj kev, tsim kom pom qhov zoo siab: "Wow, cov khoom no tau raug muab tshem tawm sai sai uas cov neeg ua haujlwm hauv khw tsis muaj sijhawm los zom nws. ! Ntxiv rau lawv tsuas yog nqa tuaj, yog li ntawd, tshiab!.. "Cov kev xav ntawm pab tsiaj tau tshwm sim, thiab koj, txaus siab, maj nrawm mus rau tus neeg khaws nyiaj nrog nyiag khoom.

Thiab tus nqi cim npe? Koj puas ua tib zoo kawm lawv txhua lub sijhawm yog tias koj yuav hauv khw muag khoom qub? Feem ntau yuav, koj tau siv qhov tseeb tias cov khoom lag luam luv nqi ntawm no tau cim nrog qee yam xim, piv txwv li, liab. Thiab koj yuav tsis pom tias cov xim no tau siv rau qee cov cim npe nrog tus nqi ib txwm muaj. Tsis muaj kev dag! Nws tsuas yog qhov koj "nyiam" rau liab tau siv. Koj tseem xav tias koj tab tom txiav txim siab thaum qhov tseeb nws tsis tshwm sim ntxiv lawm.

Qhov ntxiv zoo dua

Lub ntsiab lus sib cais ntawm kev sib tham yog kev tso cov tuam tsev hauv qee qhov ntawm lub khw. Koj yuav tsis pom ib lub tsev muag khoom twg uas cov cheeb tsam tseem ceeb nrog cov khoom xav tau ntau tshaj plaws nyob ntawm qhov nkag. Qhov tseeb, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, lawv yuav nyob deb tshaj plaws ntawm nws. Qhov no tau ua tiav txhawm rau ntawm txoj kev mus rau lub hom phiaj nyiam, tus neeg yuav khoom tau paub nrog lwm cov khoom sib txawv. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, nws hloov tawm tias txawm tias koj tau poob los yuav tsuas yog ob peb lub npe khoom, koj yuav raug txhawb kom yuav ob peb yam khoom ntxiv.

Tab sis xav tias koj tsis yog neeg siab phem thiab, txawm hais tias txhua yam, koj npaj siab txwv koj tus kheej nkaus xwb rau cov tuam tsev uas cov khoom lag luam los ntawm koj daim ntawv teev npe nyob: khob cij, mis, qe, nqaij, thiab zoo li ntawd. Zoo, peb yuav tsum ua rau koj poob siab, muaj qhov tshwm sim siab uas koj yuav tsum tau khiav ntau: cov khoom siv mis yuav nyob hauv ib feem ntawm lub khw muag khoom noj, khob cij hauv lwm qhov … ntawm qhov kev txiav txim siab deb ntawm lub tuam tsev dhau los. Koj puas tau txais txoj cai? Txoj haujlwm tseem zoo ib yam - tsis txhob cia koj txwv koj tus kheej rau yam uas tau npaj tseg. Koj yuav tsum nqa ntau li ntau tau hauv koj lub laub.

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Los ntawm txoj kev, hais txog lub laub. Lawv phem! Tsis muaj dab tsi ua kom zoo dua kev siv nyiaj zoo li tsis siv lawv. Yog, nws yooj yim. Yog, lawv haum ntau. Tab sis qhov teeb meem. Koj yuav tsis mus ncig hauv khw tau ntau teev nrog pob tawb: qhov hnyav tau hnov, ntim tau txwv. Thiab lub trolley yog lwm qhov teeb meem … thiab cov neeg ua haujlwm hauv khw muag khoom nkag siab qhov no zoo heev. Puas tau pom tias tus naj npawb ntawm cov pob tawb uas zoo ib yam tau txo qis thaum lub sij hawm ncov? Tab sis analogs nrog lub log yog dime kaum ob.

Zoo, lub sijhawm los tsim kev tiv thaiv. Peb txhim kho ntau tus cwj pwm muaj txiaj ntsig: peb mus rau tom khw nrog cov npe, xaiv cov khoom lag luam suav nrog "lub ntsiab lus kub", tsis txhob maj mus yuav cov khoom "tsis txaus", tshuaj xyuas cov ntaub ntawv ntawm tus nqi luv nqi, tso tseg lub tsheb kom haum rau pob tawb thiab … tsis txhob tig rau "autopilot" txheej txheem ntim khoom.

Qhov tseem ceeb yuav tsum nco ntsoov yog tias peb tsis raug dag, tab sis tsuas yog siv los ntawm peb tus yam ntxwv kev xav. Txhawm rau kom tsis txhob muab coj los siv, nws txaus los ua raws txoj cai qub: "Ntsuas xya zaus, txiav ib zaug." Los yog yooj yim dua … tsis txhob hnov qab xav!