Teeb meem hnub nyoog kawm ntawv

2024 Tus sau: James Gerald | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 14:08

Lub caij nplooj ntoo hlav dhau los, nws tau mob siab rau saib kuv tus phooj ywg - nws tau thinner, nws tau tsaug zog los ntawm nws lub ntsej muag - thiab txhua yam vim yog nws tus ntxhais kawm qib ib, uas kev noj qab haus huv tam sim ntawd tsis zoo thiab muaj teeb meem nrog nws txoj kev kawm.

Nws txhua yam pib zoo heev! Tus ntxhais tau npaj, tos ntsoov yuav mus kawm thiab thawj lub hlis tsis ua rau muaj teeb meem - txhua yam yooj yim rau nws, nws tsis pab ntau, nws zoo siab nrog nws cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm, thiab nws zoo li nyiam tus kws qhia ntawv. Thiab tom qab hnub so lub caij ntuj no, zoo li niam hais tias tus menyuam zoo li tsis kam mus kawm ntawv. Thaum xub thawj, lawv tsis tau muab qhov tseem ceeb rau qhov no - zoo, koj yeej tsis paub, kuv tsis tau so txaus, laziness …

Ces mam li nco dheev nws pib yws ntawm mob plab. Nws zoo li lawv tsis tau them sai sai rau qhov no, tab sis thaum tus ntxhais muaj xya xyoo pib muaj tus mob enuresis (thiab qhov no, raws li koj paub, pw tsaug zog), cov niam txiv tau ceeb toom, coj tus menyuam mus rau tus kws tshaj lij, tab sis lawv tsis pom muaj dab tsi tsis raug, lawv qhia nws kom taug kev ntau dua, haus cov vitamins, tsis txhob saib TV ua ntej mus pw, thiab lwm yam. Tawm tsam keeb kwm yav dhau los ntawm txhua qhov no, xyov lawv tsis tau pom dua li ob zaug, ob peb cov lus pib tshwm rau hauv phau ntawv teev npe. Nws yog thaum ntawd, tau tshuaj xyuas qhov xwm txheej, ib tus kws kho mob xa tus neeg mob mus rau kws kho mob hlwb.

Thiab nws yog lawm! Tus ntxhais tau "tham", thiab nws tau muab tawm uas twb tau nyob rau lub hlis thib ob nws tau muaj teeb meem nrog tus kws qhia ntawv. Muaj peev xwm, tab sis qeeb me ntsis, tus menyuam uas tsis xav hauv lub thawv tsis haum rau lub tsev kawm ntawv. Nws tuaj yeem nug cov lus nug yam tsis tau xav thaum lub sijhawm piav qhia, tsis teb tam sim rau tus xibfwb cov lus hais, tsis suav "raws li nws yuav tsum", tabsis ua txuj ci dag uas nws txiv qhia nws. Thiab tus kws qhia ntawv tsis tau hais meej "tsis nyiam", tab sis pib tsis quav ntsej, tsis ceeb toom (thiab tej zaum tsis txaus siab rau qib).

Kuv tus phooj ywg tus ntxhais yog rhiab heev, nws tam sim poob siab, thaum xub thawj nws txuas ntxiv nqa tsib thiab plaub, tab sis kev ntxhov siab nyob ntsiag to ua rau nws tus kheej hnov nrog "phantom" mob thiab nplooj ntub. Cov niam txiv tau tham tam sim nrog tus kws qhia ntawv, ua haujlwm nrog tus kws kho paj hlwb, thiab thaum kawg ntawm peb lub hlis dhau los txhua yam tau ruaj khov; tam sim no tus kawm qib ob yav tom ntej tseem tos thawj lub Cuaj Hlis. Ib yam dab tsi yuav tshwm sim tom ntej …

Zaj dab neeg no - ib ntawm ntau qhov - piav qhia meej txog qhov nyuaj ntawm "lub sijhawm ntsoog zaum ob", feem ntau tshwm sim thaum muaj hnub nyoog xya xyoo lossis yim xyoo (nws tshwm sim, ntawm chav kawm, hauv ntau txoj kev, qee qhov ua ntej, qee qhov tom qab; nws txhua yam nyob ntawm tus menyuam). Nws tau ntseeg tias qhov "teebmeem" no dhau mus yooj yim dua li thawj zaug, ntawm peb lossis plaub xyoos, thiab muaj kev poob qis dua li "hluas" hluas. Txawm li cas los xij, hauv kuv lub tswv yim, lub sijhawm no yuav luag nyuaj rau menyuam yaus, vim tias nws feem ntau cuam tshuam nrog qhov "poob siab" xws li mus kawm ntawv.

Thawj peb xyoos ntawm kev kawm yog qhov tseem ceeb heev: cov kws kho kev puas siab ntsws, kws kho mob, thiab cov kws qhia ntawv tau pom zoo hauv qhov tseeb tias menyuam yaus ua pov thawj nws tus kheej li cas, nws kawm tiav lub tsev kawm ntawv theem siab nyob ntawm qhov ntsuas nws yuav txav mus rau qhov txuas txuas ntxiv thiab txawm tias nws yuav txuas ntxiv mus li cas kawm hauv lub koom haum. Thiab thaum xub thawj nws tuaj yeem nyuaj heev. Qhov tseeb yog tias thaum tus menyuam hais qhia nws tus kheej, nws, txawm hais tias txhua yam nws dag, xav tias muaj kev tiv thaiv, nws niam nyob ntawd, txawm tias nws npau taws rau nws. Txog qee qhov, tus tub hluas tau tsim lub ntiaj teb kev pom, lub tswv yim dav dua ntawm lub ntiaj teb ib puag ncig nws, cov phooj ywg nyob ib puag ncig loj dua, thiab thawj tus tub kawm ntawv zoo li raug pov rau hauv dej. Qhov yuav tsum tau muaj hauv tsev kawm yog txawv kiag li - yog tias nyob hauv tsev kawm qib kindergarten tus menyuam ua si, pw thiab tau ua haujlwm me ntsis, tam sim no nws yuav tsum ua ntau yam nws tus kheej, nws xav tias muaj lub luag haujlwm, leej niam tsis nyob ntawd. Yog tias qee yam tsis mus zoo - tom tsev kawm ntawv lossis hauv tsev neeg, tom qab ntawd muaj kev mob hlwb.

Ntxiv mus, teeb meem tuaj yeem sib txawv kiag li. Piv txwv li, kev sib nrauj (lossis xwm txheej nyob ze ntawm kev sib nrauj) ntawm cov niam txiv uas, nyob rau hauv kev kub ntxhov ntawm tsev neeg sib ntaus, nco txog tus menyuam tsuas yog thaum kev hloov pauv hauv nws tus cwj pwm (mus txog ntawm kev khiav tawm hauv tsev), kev kawm (qib tsis zoo thiab lus pom zoo)) thiab kev noj qab haus huv dhau los ua qhov pom tseeb. Feem ntau nyob rau hauv txoj kev no tus txiv leej tub me me sim coj niam txiv los ze zog ua ke, "ua pauj kua zaub ntsuab" rau qhov tsis muaj kev saib xyuas, lossis muab SOS teeb liab siv cov txhais tau rau nws. Tib yam zoo ib yam tshwm sim thaum muaj menyuam thib ob tshwm hauv tsev neeg; Ib qho ntxiv, tus tij laug lossis tus muam pib piav qhia "tus menyuam" - lawv pw hauv lub txaj, nqa lub txiv mis rau hauv lawv lub qhov ncauj, lawv hais phem dua - "hais lus mos".

Nov yog nyob ntawm niam - nws zoo yog tias koj tuaj yeem txav nrawm thiab hloov tus menyuam mus rau qee yam kev ua haujlwm. Txawm hais tias tag nrho koj cov teeb meem, sim tsis txhob poob ntsej muag dab tsi - koj tus menyuam kawm ntawv me tuaj tsev los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv chim siab, hais lus tsis txaus ntseeg txog nws cov phooj ywg, tsis xav mus kawm, tsis nkees, tsis mob siab rau. Cov no tuaj yeem yog thawj cov cim ntawm kev puas tsuaj uas yuav los txog, yog li nco ntsoov nrhiav sijhawm los tham, nug koj li cas, koj nyiam dab tsi, dab tsi tsis, koj ntsib teeb meem dab tsi …

Yog tias koj tus menyuam yog los ntawm kev yug tsiaj ntsiag to (tseem muaj xws li - lawv yuav tsis hais cov lus, txhua tus ntawm lawv yuav tsum tau "rub"), nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev, piv txwv li, nug cov lus nug. Wb hais tias koj pom qee yam tsis raug; tsis txhob ua siab deb, pib: "Koj puas nyob zoo? Koj puas nyiam tus kws qhia ntawv? Koj tsis sib cav nrog koj cov phooj ywg? Dab tsi, koj tau sib ntaus nrog Sasha? Vim li cas?" lwm yam. Txawm hais tias tag nrho cov lus teb yog "ib txwm muaj", koj tseem yuav nkag siab qhov twg "qhov teeb meem tsis huv". Tsis txhob tsum, "tig" tus menyuam ntxiv, yuav luag nws muaj qhov xav tau hais lus zoo, tab sis vim li cas nws thiaj li tawm tsam. Kwv yees rau koj tus kheej - yog tias koj tus menyuam nyob nrog tus yam ntxwv ntawm tus thawj coj, nws yuav tsis ua tiav hauv kev coj noj coj ua hauv chav kawm lossis muaj kev sib tw nrog lwm tus tub ntxhais kawm.

Yog tus menyuam nyob ntsiag to thiab thim rov qab, cov yam ntxwv no tuaj yeem ua rau hnyav dua nyob rau thawj lub hlis ntawm kev kawm. Yog tias qhov no yog qhov tsis txaus ntseeg, tom qab ntawd nws muaj peev xwm hais tias plaub caug tsib feeb yog siv zog rau nws (los ntawm Vajtswv, Kuv tsis paub yuav ua dab tsi ntawm no, tab sis qee qhov nws yuav tsum tau sib ntaus). Thiab kos cov lus xaus uas tsim nyog. Thiab tom qab ntawd - mus rau nws!

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