Yuav ua li cas kom tau nrog tus txiv neej yog tias nws yog neeg txawv tebchaws

2024 Tus sau: James Gerald | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 14:08

Kev sib raug zoo nrog tus txiv neej extrovert tuaj yeem yog qhov nyuaj, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj yog qhov sib txawv thiab nyiam nyob ntsiag to tsev neeg yav tsaus ntuj kom nrov nrov nrog cov phooj ywg. Nws nyuaj rau tus kws tshaj lij kom nkag siab lub ntsiab lus tseeb ntawm cov lus "kom nyob ntsiag to ua ke." Nws nyiam tham, tso dag thiab txaus siab rau lwm tus mloog. Thiab nws tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab tiag tiag.

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Tus txiv neej extrovert yog qhov tshwj xeeb heev "txiv hmab txiv ntoo". Yog tias koj tau siv qhov tseeb tias feem ntau ntawm kev sib deev muaj zog hauv koj ib puag ncig yog ntsiag to thiab sim tsis txhob qhia lawv qhov kev xav, tom qab ntawd nrog tus kws tshaj lij koj yuav tau rov tsim dua ntawm qhov sib txawv kiag li. Tsis yog, qhov no tsis tau txhais hais tias txhua tus extrovert tsis ua siab loj thiab coj zoo li poj niam. Nws tsuas yog xav tau lub suab tas li uas tau sau tseg hauv nws tus plig, tham txog teeb meem thiab tau txais kev tawm tswv yim. Tus extrovert tsis tuaj yeem xav txog nws lub neej yam tsis muaj kev sib txuas lus thiab yuav xav tau ib yam los ntawm nws tus khub, uas yog, tag nrho kev xav rov qab los.

Cia peb tso siab rau koj ua ntej: tus neeg hais lus tsis yog tus noog tham txhua, nws kuj qee zaum xav tau kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb thiab nyob ntsiag to, txawm hais tias qhov no yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj li txoj cai. Xav kom ib tus neeg nyob sab nrauv siv sijhawm hmo Saturday thib peb nyob ua ke nrog koj, thaum nws cov phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws tuaj sib sau ua ke hauv lub tuam txhab nrov nrov hauv bar, kuj tseem tsis tsim nyog nws - kev tsis sib haum xeeb tsis tuaj yeem zam tau.

Dab tsi ua extroverts tsis nyiam?

Cia peb qhia meej ua ntej tias qhov kev coj dawb huv tshaj plaws yog qhov tshwm sim tsis tshua muaj tshwm sim. Yuav luag txhua tus ntawm peb tau sib xyaw nrog cov yam ntxwv ntawm ob tus yam ntxwv. Txawm li cas los xij, qee qhov zoo li yeej. Yog tias koj paub tseeb tias qhov koj xaiv tau yeej tsis yog "yam ntawm nws tus kheej", tab sis yog "yam nyob ib puag ncig koj," tom qab ntawd sim tsis txhob ntshai nws nrog cov lus thiab ua hauv qab no:

1. Whining. Yog lawm, yog tias muaj qee yam tsis zoo tshwm sim hauv lub neej ntawm tus extrovert, tom qab ntawd tag nrho nws cov neeg nyob ze yuav paub sai sai. Tab sis tus extrovert yuav tsis muaj npe lub siab xav qhia nws cov teeb meem nrog ib tus neeg ntxhi. Nws txaus rau nws pov tawm cov kev xav tsis zoo ib zaug, thiab txhua yam twb zoo lawm. Tab sis tus khub, nyiam mloog cov ntsiab lus ntawm lub neej muaj teeb meem, yuav ua rau muaj kev cuam tshuam rau tus txiv neej extroverted.

Yog li ntawd, tsis nco qab txog tus cwj pwm ntawm kev yws tas li txog koj lub neej tsis muaj qab hau - tus neeg tawm tsam yuav khiav ntawm koj mus tom qab kab lus thib ob "txhua yam phem heev".

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2. Kev ua neeg nyob hauv tsev. Extrovert tsuas yog xav tau nyob ib puag ncig tib neeg. Tus txiv neej zoo li no yuav caw koj mus rau xinesmas, rau txhua yam kev nthuav tawm, khoom noj txom ncauj thiab lwm yam xwm txheej. Tsis yog, qhov no tsis txhais tau tias nws tsis xav nyob ib leeg nrog nws tus poj niam uas nws hlub, nws tsuas yog tias kev ua si dhau los yuav ua rau nws sai sai.

Sim tsis lees paub tus txiv neej extrovert ob peb zaug uake tawm mus ua ke, thiab nws yuav pib tawm mus yam tsis muaj koj.

3. Tsis quav ntsej yam tsis muaj lus piav qhia. Yog tias tus txiv neej extrovert tau ua txhaum, nws yuav qhia koj qhov tseeb, vim li cas, yuav ua li cas thiab hauv txoj kev twg koj tuaj yeem kho qhov xwm txheej. Nws tuaj yeem ua kev txaj muag (tsis txhob hnov qab - nws yuav tsum tau hais tawm), tab sis kom nyob ntsiag to rau peb hnub tsis yog hais txog nws. Yog li ntawd, tus txiv neej extrovert xav tsis thoob thaum nws tus khub "xa nws mus rau qhov thaiv" yam tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam dab tsi, qhov tseeb, yog qhov fuss. Ua ntej, nws yuav ua siab ncaj sim nrhiav txhua yam, thiab tom qab ntawd nws tsuas yog npau taws, ntaus lub qhov rooj thiab mus rau qhov bar nrog nws cov phooj ywg zoo tshaj.

4. Kev tsis ncaj ncees. Extroverted txiv neej feem ntau vain. Lawv yuav tsum tau txais kev qhuas, lawv yuav tsum tau hais tas li "ua tsaug", thiab lawv cov khoom plig yuav tsum zoo siab zoo li yog tias txhua tus neeg laus hauv koj lub neej koj npau suav txog qhov tsw tsw qab uas tsis paub keeb kwm. Yog lawm, hauv qee txoj hauv kev cov neeg sawv cev ntawm kev sib deev muaj zog zoo li cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawm pab pawg nruab nrab ntawm qib pib. Tab sis leej twg hais tias nws yuav yooj yim?

Thaum kawg, koj yuav tsis tsis lees tias koj tseem xav kom muaj kev ris txiaj tiag thaum koj ua qee yam nrog kev hlub rau tus neeg hlub?

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Yuav ua li cas nyob twj ywm nthuav rau tus extrovert

1. Kev hloov pauv tas li. Cia peb ceeb toom koj ib zaug ntxiv-nws tsis xav tau kev nyob ntsiag to nyob hauv tsev. Ib tug poj niam, raws li qhov raug rho tawm, yuav tsum muaj qhov kaj, zoo siab thiab yooj yim mus.

2. Muaj peev xwm mloog thiab hais lus. Nov yog lawv li cas - koj yuav tsum mloog lawv thiab ua kev sib tham mus. Los ntawm txoj kev, thaum xub thawj koj yuav txaj muag los ntawm qhov no, tab sis hais txog kev sib raug zoo, extroverts tsis nyiam nyob ntsiag to. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob hnov qab hnov: "Koj puas zoo nrog kuv?" Teb: "Tau kawg, yog, nyob zoo," yog tias koj tsis xav kom lub rooj sib tham no yog zaum kawg.

3. Npaj rau kev ua tsis zoo. Tawm hauv txaj thaum peb teev sawv ntxov thiab mus ncig ib ncig ntawm lub nroog thaum hmo ntuj, txawm hais tias tag kis koj ob leeg yuav tsum tau ua haujlwm? Yooj yim! Tus extrovert yuav tsis xav li ntawd. Tsis yog, qhov no tsis txhais tau tias tus txiv neej me me "qhov ntawd", nws tsuas yog nyiam lub neej thiab sim nrog nws lub zog kom tsis txhob npub thiab nkees.

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