Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob sib cav nrog koj tus txiv

2024 Tus sau: James Gerald | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 14:08

Nws yuav zoo li txhua yam kev sib cav nrog nws tus txiv yog qhov tshwm sim tsis tuaj yeem kwv yees tau thiab tswj tsis tau tias nws tsis tuaj yeem txiav tawm tsawg kawg qee qhov kev cai ntawm tus cwj pwm thaum muaj kev sib cav.

Txawm li cas los xij, qhov kev xav no yog yuam kev, thiab peb, poj niam, yuav tsum nco qab ntau qhov kev txwv uas tsis muaj qhov xwm txheej yuav tsum tau ua txhaum yog tias peb xav ua kom tsev neeg muaj zog.

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Qee zaum kev sib cav sib ceg los ntawm qhov khawb, thiab tom qab ib nrab teev peb tsis nco qab tias txhua qhov kev sib cav yog dab tsi, tab sis peb txuas ntxiv qw, tuav cov tais diav, ntaus lub qhov rooj thiab hu rau peb cov txiv neej uas hlub lus tsis zoo.

Nws nyuaj heev los tswj peb tus kheej hauv lub xeev zoo li no, zoo li lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm txhua qhov kev sib cav yog los tiv thaiv peb qhov kev xav, thiab peb tau sim ua nws txhua txoj hauv kev, thaum saib, muab nws me me, tsis yog txaus nyiam.

Hnub tom ntej, thaum kev mob siab rau qis dua, peb yuav pib nco qab tias peb coj tus cwj pwm phem npaum li cas, ua li cas peb tau thuam peb tus hlub, tab sis, hmoov tsis zoo, peb yuav tsis tuaj yeem kho qhov ua tsis raug. Qee cov lus hais hauv kev kub ntxhov ntawm kev sib cav tau nco txog lub sijhawm ntev, thiab qee qhov kev ua yog tso tawm cov cim - hauv daim ntawv ntawm cov tais diav tawg, cov rooj tog tawg thiab cov duab nraus. Yog lawm, peb lees peb tus kheej tias "nws tsim nyog nws txhua yam, nws yuav tsum raug liam," tab sis cov laj thawj uas coj mus rau kev sib cav tsis tau piav qhia qhov twg peb sib cav. Cov kws paub txog kev puas siab ntsws hais tias tsev neeg tsis tawg vim yog kev sib cav lawv tus kheej, tab sis vim yog tib neeg coj tus cwj pwm zoo li cas thaum muaj kev sib tsoo no. Yog li ntawd, cia saib seb yuav tsum tsis ua dab tsi thaum sib cav nrog tus neeg hlub thiab qhov uas koj tus txiv neej yuav tsis txaus siab, tab sis qhov tsis zoo - nws yuav pib muaj zog dua.

Nkag mus rau hauv kev sib ntaus

Ua ntej, qhov no yog qhov pib tsis raug: koj tus hlub muaj zog dua koj lub cev, thiab yog tias, Vajtswv txwv, nws teb rau koj lub tshuab (txawm tias nws yuam kev, piv txwv li, txiav txim siab cia li thawb koj mus), ces koj yuav raug kev txom nyem.

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Qhov thib ob, cov txiv neej uas tsis xav txog tias nws tuaj yeem tsa tes tawm tsam tus poj niam, raws li txoj cai, tsis tuaj yeem sawv kev coj tus cwj pwm zoo rau nws ib yam: lawv tsis muaj peev xwm ua kom tus neeg sib ntaus sib tua muaj "txoj hauv kev muaj zog", tab sis lawv kuj tsis xav ua lub hnab xuas nrig ntaus.

Taug kev mus slamming lub qhov rooj

Lwm qhov ntawm peb cov poj niam nyiam "dag", uas tsis tuaj yeem sawv ntsug feem ntau ntawm kev sib deev muaj zog. Peb tawm tsam ntawm chav lossis chav tsev, tawm mus rau hauv txoj kev kom ua pa, ua pa thiab nqig, thiab lawv zaum tsis pub dhau plaub phab ntsa, rov ua qhov kev txaj muag uas nyuam qhuav tshwm sim hauv lawv lub taub hau thiab, saum toj no, txhawj xeeb txog peb. Kuv puas yuav tsum piav qhia vim li cas txiv neej tsis nyiam nws thaum peb cia li khiav tawm ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb?

Kev txaj muag

Thaum muaj kev txaj muag, peb raug ntxias kom hais qee yam tsis txaus ntseeg: qhia kev ua xyem xyav txog nws lub peev xwm kev puas siab puas ntsws, ua rau nws tsev neeg mob thiab, qhov phem tshaj plaws, luag rau qhov muaj peev xwm sib deev ntawm peb tus hlub.

Yog tias koj xyaum ua kom poob ntsej muag, tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab ua ntej tias yam khoom twg koj xav khaws cia rau koj tus kheej tom qab kev sib nrauj. Cov txiv neej ntxub kom txaj muag, thiab lawv yuav tsis nyob ib sab ntawm tus poj niam zoo li no.

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Kev cem

Tus xibfwb qhia ntawv lub suab yog qhov zoo rau menyuam yaus, tabsis yeej tsis yog nrog tus neeg laus ywj siab sawv cev ntawm kev sib deev muaj zog. Nov yog qhov xav paub ntau ntxiv thiab ua daim npog ntsej muag ntawm kev txaj muag: "Kuv tsis qhia koj ib yam dab tsi uas ua phem. Tab sis qhov kuv hais, Kuv yuav nthuav tawm nws nrog lub suab nrov uas yuav ua rau koj tsis ntseeg koj tus kheej thiab koj lub peev xwm."

Ua hysterical

Txiv neej ntxub nws thaum poj niam tig mus rau hauv lub suab quaj. Ua ib txwm maj thiab airy, thaum tshav kub kub ntawm kev sib cav peb mam li hloov pauv kom tsis zoo dua: peb lub ntsej muag tig liab, peb lub qhov muag mus vwm, thiab peb lub suab zoo li lub suab luag ntxhi ntawm tus dab los ntawm cov yeeb yaj kiab txaus ntshai tshaj plaws. Koj puas xav kom koj tus txiv neej pom koj hauv lub teeb uas tsis ntxim nyiam?

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Txhawm rau tais diav

Tau kawg, peb tau ua txhaum rau lawv tus kheej qee zaum ua txhaum los ntawm kev tsoo qhov rooj, quav, cov rooj thiab lwm yam khoom siv sab hauv, tab sis lawv tsis txais tos kev ntaus ntawm cov phaj yog li cov poj niam nyiam. Thiab ntawm no txhua yam yog qhov yooj yim: hauv kev xav ntawm cov txiv neej, qhov no tsis tsim nyog heev - tom qab ntawd koj yuav tsum yuav cov tais diav tshiab, uas txhais tau tias siv nyiaj. Tau kawg, qhov no tsis yog qhov laj thawj nkaus xwb, thiab lub ntsiab lus yog, feem ntau yuav yog los ntawm kev pov khob thiab cov tais tais diav ntawm peb tus txij nkawm, peb rov coj zoo li kev npau taws, tab sis ib qho kev tsim nyog mus rau hauv tsev neeg pob nyiaj siv kuj muaj qhov chaw. ua.