Niam txiv thiab menyuam sib cav txog dab tsi: Cov theem ntawm qhov teeb meem

2024 Tus sau: James Gerald | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 14:08

Nws tsis tau tsim los ntawm peb, thiab nws tsis muaj nyob hauv peb lub zog los daws nws. Nws yog, yog thiab yuav yog - loj thiab noj qab nyob zoo, tawg, ua kom tsis muaj zog thiab yuam kom ib tus ua ntau qhov yuam kev thiab yam tsis zoo, teeb meem ntawm kev sib nkag siab ntawm niam txiv thiab menyuam. Katya 14 xyoos, tej zaum, yuav tsis haus luam yeeb hauv nws lub qhov ncauj, yog tias tsis yog rau nws niam cov lus: "Yog tias kuv pom koj nrog luam yeeb, kuv yuav tuav koj zoo li tus dev dev!" Thiab Daniel-25-xyoo, kom paub tseeb, yuav muaj txoj haujlwm sib txawv yog tias nws paub yuav ua siab tawv thiab txiav txim siab hais tias "tsis" (qhov tseeb, lub peev xwm los ua qhov no tau poob siab thaum muaj hnub nyoog 4 xyoos). Qhov teeb meem ntawm "txiv thiab menyuam", zoo li menyuam yaus, hla dhau ob peb qib sib txawv hauv nws txoj kev loj hlob. Txawm hais tias, nws lub hauv paus tseem tseem zoo ib yam: qhov xav tau kev ywj pheej.

Cov me nyuam me Me nyuam yaus xav tau"

Cov menyuam kawm ntawv yau Cov kws kho mob hlwb hu lub sijhawm no "teeb meem hnub nyoog hauv tsev kawm ntawv." Thaum muaj hnub nyoog no, thawj zaug, qhov xwm txheej tsis zoo tshwm sim: tam sim no peb, cov neeg laus, tau sim yuam cov menyuam kom muaj lub luag haujlwm, muab qee yam kev ywj pheej rau lawv kom lawv … tsis txhob cuam tshuam nrog peb. Cov lus qhia, kev npaj rau ntau yam haujlwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv - txhua yam no tam sim no feem ntau yog menyuam yaus qhov kev txhawj xeeb. Cov niam txiv, ntawm qhov tod, sim ua lub luag haujlwm ntawm tus kws txiav txim plaub nruj uas tshuaj xyuas qhov txiaj ntsig zaum kawg (kev dag, kev thuam hauv phau ntawv teev npe, hu xov tooj mus rau tsev kawm ntawv, lossis sib tham, A, tsab ntawv). Thaum tus menyuam tseem kawm qib pib, peb tau sim tswj nws txhua kauj ruam. Tam sim no nws zoo li qhov program tau hloov pauv hauv lub khoos phis tawj: "Tam sim no koj loj heev. Koj yuav ua cov tais diav, mus rau tom khw rau mov ci, ua koj cov ntawv ua tom tsev ntawm koj tus kheej, thiab lwm yam." Qhov teeb meem nkaus xwb yog qhov no tsis yog lub sijhawm zoo tshaj plaws rau menyuam kom ua kev cai raus dej ntawm nws tus kheej. Thawj ob peb xyoos hauv tsev kawm ntawv yog lub sijhawm uas niam txiv yuav tsum tau ua tib zoo saib, nkag siab thiab ua siab ntev txhawm rau pab lawv tus menyuam tsim kev sib raug zoo tshiab nrog cov kws qhia ntawv thiab cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm. Ntxiv mus, koj yuav tsum sim ua tsis yog tus saib xyuas (qhov no yuav ua rau menyuam yaus tsis muaj menyuam), tab sis lub luag haujlwm thiab muaj peev xwm sawv los tiv thaiv txoj cai thiab tus yam ntxwv ntawm koj tus menyuam nyob rau ntawm cov neeg tsis paub. Tus kws paub txog kev puas siab puas ntsws Karine Gyulazizova tham txog qhov no kom ntxaws.

Cov hluas Hnub nyoog thaum lub siab xav kom muaj kev ywj pheej tshaj txhua qhov kev tso cai "qauv". Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, cov menyuam tseem raug coj los ntawm cov laus. Tab sis tam sim no lawv tsis xav tau kev tiv thaiv ntau npaum li kev lees paub ntawm lawv tus kheej ua tus neeg ywj pheej, nrog lawv lub siab nyiam, txoj haujlwm, kev xav. Hauv cov tsev neeg uas muaj kev ntseeg sib raug zoo ntawm cov neeg hauv tsev neeg, lub sijhawm no dhau mus ua ntu zus. Tau kawg, tsis muaj xwm txheej xwm txheej, tab sis kev sib raug zoo ntawm niam txiv thiab menyuam tso cai rau lawv sib koom "tham txog qhov teeb meem" thiab nrhiav txoj hauv kev daws rau nws. Lwm qhov yog cov tsev neeg muaj cai thiab tsev neeg, uas feem ntau tau saib xyuas zoo rau sab nraud ntawm tus menyuam lub neej (zoo li lub cev zoo, noj zoo, mloog lus, thiab lwm yam). Hauv cov txheej txheem ntawm kev sib raug zoo, kev xav tau kev ywj pheej dhau los ua qhov kawg rau nws tus kheej, piv txwv li. - kev ywj pheej rau lub hom phiaj ntawm kev nthuav qhia lawv txoj kev ywj pheej. Yog li hom "Riot ntawm Lub Nkoj" tshwm sim hauv tsev neeg - nyeem txog nws hauv cov khoom ntawm Yulia Alexandrova.

Cov neeg laus Cov kws tshawb fawb txog teeb meem ntawm tsev neeg kev sib raug zoo tau pom tias kev sib txawv loj tshaj plaws ntawm niam txiv thiab menyuam yaus tshwm sim nyob rau lub sijhawm txij 17-18 txog 27-28 xyoos. Rau cov tub ntxhais hluas, qhov no yog lub sijhawm ntawm "schwaboda", thaum siv tag nrho "kev lom zem rau neeg laus" dhau los ua kev tso cai: luam yeeb, haus cawv, pw ua ke, nyiaj txiag. Thiab thaum lub sijhawm no, tau dhia tawm ntawm niam txiv lub zes, nyuam qhuav pib "me nyuam qaib" sim cais lawv tus kheej los ntawm lawv cov txwj laus. Lawv xyaum tsis ua raws li lawv niam lawv txiv cov lus qhia (lossis ua raws li kev pom zoo sab nraud), zam thiab zam lawv lub tuam txhab. Nws yog lub sijhawm 10 xyoo no uas cov menyuam "kawm los ntawm lawv qhov yuam kev", tsis quav ntsej lwm tus neeg qhov kev paub dhau los. Rau cov niam txiv, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, qhov no yog lub sijhawm uas lawv xav tias yuav tsum sib txuas lus nrog cov menyuam loj hlob zoo ib yam (uas lawv cov tub thiab ntxhais hnub nyoog 12-15 xyoos nrhiav los ntawm lawv ob peb xyoos dhau los). Thiab tsuas yog ze rau hnub nyoog 30, cov menyuam, raug kev tsim txom los ntawm lub neej thiab qhia los ntawm kev paub dhau los, pib nrhiav hom lus ib txwm nrog lawv niam txiv tsis muaj lawm.